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10. Jahan chah waha rah

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  Mein Se Hum Tak, Along Her Books Jahan cha waha rah   J ab 10 saal ki thi woh ek nanhi si Gudiya,  dekha tha ek khwab bahut bada aur badhiya. K hwab tha bas apne naam ke aage ek aur naam lagana, ‘JD‘  se “Dr. JD“ ban jana, T hi who har apne us guru ki abhar i,  Jinhone sikhaya use chalana zindagi ki gadi K hwab dikhya tha unhone har padaw pe, payo ge use lagan, mehnat aur lagav se. H ar kadam pe hosla dost aur duniya badhati thi,  par asli himmat toh apne andhar se hi aati thi. Z indagi hamesha waise nahi chalti jaise hum chahate hai,  rah me kabhi pathar toh kabhi pahad aa jaatein hai. J ab ek ghar se apne ghar jana hota hai, ladkiyo ki zindagi me toffan sa udh jata hai. S ab chod ke chal padi who bhi zindagi ki us rah par, peeche chodne pade the jab sapne aur rehna tha ek Parivar         ban   kar. P ar kuch saath se, kuch baat se, sapno ki dor ko kabhi na chodda, shaa...

9. Getting Back

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 Mein Se Hum Tak, Along Her Books Getting back Living with a celiac child will turn your life upside down as celiac kids need 100% of your attention.  Crying at the grocery store, getting disturbed at a relative’s place including all the functions was so common. Not willing to attend a party or trip, getting frustrated was all she suffered in the initial years of the diagnosis. Her eyes were always swelled up in tears taking care of her son while easing him up of his fever and aches. Although with time, that overwhelming shock of diagnosis and diet subsided, and everything became a part of her normal life. After all her efforts of managing his son’s diet along with the gluten diet, she could slowly  gain confidence in her role as a coeliac’s   mother.  It was the new normal for her . Taking care of one kitchen is difficult, but she managed two kitchens at a time , and with all her heart. And if you do good, you get good. By the blessing of God, things w...

8. U-Turn

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 Mein Se Hum Tak ,Along Her Books U-Turn M.Phil. padte padte her daughter was born and while doing her Ph.D. her son was born. A blessed life, a complete family, now with her doctorate degree, she wanted to touch the sky . With the support of her family, she had grown wonderfully during her struggle years,  and now she wanted to get some fruits of that. Proud and confident she opted for a job as a professor in a college. Passing her knowledge to her students and managing her family life was going well. Work and life balance were beautifully maintained. Fun trips, official and family gatherings, personal time, everything was like a smooth sailing boat. She had growth plans for her future and was super dedicated to working while happily handling her kids and family. After one year while her promotion was due in the college, while taking the lecture, she got a call from her home, that her son is not well. She rushed back home, as her son had a severe stomach ache. And th...

7. You are not stopped by obstacles when there is enthusiam

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                                             Mein Se Hum Tak, Along Her Books!!!                               You are not stopped by obstacles when there is enthusiasm… Now living a content, comfortable life, the lecturer woman still had her mind running on and on about her dream. Mindset is one thing, but for fulfilling your dream you need to talk, see and gather.  She talked about her dream to her family, colleagues, and other people around. She always kept looking for resources and information.  As one day she believed her vision will come true. If you believe you have the “cells” for your plan, you will definitely find a way. So did “JD”. While working in the college one day, a few of the selected lecturers of the college got an opportunity from t...

6. Balancing

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  Mein se hum tak, Along her Books Balancing     During her training semester, her parents started looking for a life partner for her. But she was  Bindass  and wanted to live her way. So, she joined the meetings with her parents and then told all her plus and minus while she had personal time in the meetings. But to her surprise she met his man, even after her tries to deny and delay the marriage, he agreed and her parents fixed it. And after 3 months of her masters, she was in her new house. The initial year of marriage is full of changes and adjustments, but her being straightforward and her  chulbuly  nature helped her go with the flow. She adjusted to the new people and started learning the new customs. Sometimes right and many times wrong, both sides were being habituated with each other. Good days, bad days and worst days too, in the initial years your married life, responsibilities increase many folds and you have to find time for you...

5. Learning life skills

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 Mein Se Hum Tak, Along With Her Books Learning life skills So, that cool and confident girl was now a big girl living her life by her rules. She was perfect for herself and felt, her life is in her hand and she can touch the sky. Good marks, wonderful personality with the best of family and friends, she was living the best of herself. Now was the admission to her masters. As always clear in her head, she wanted to continue with her master’s degree in biotechnology. And then she took a great step in her comfortable life. Admission to the hostel for her Master's. Admission to the hostel was  jitna  exciting for her  utna hi  she experienced hell. She has always lived a comfortable, princess lifestyle, with everyone at her service whenever she needs help. Food, clothes, shopping, driver-driven car, everything she needed was with her anytime any moment she wanted. And now the hostel, though she entered with her own will, she did not have any idea what she will be m...

4. Cool and Confident

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  Mein se hum tak, Along with her books Cool and Confident Though she had a distinction in every subject but clearing entrance examination was as big feet too. She tried her best, but PMT she did not clear… depressed but no losing hope she tried for the engineering and finally got a call from Kurukshetra University. Everyone in the family was cheerful and excited to go for the final selection. But in her mind, she herself was not motivated to do that. The voice from inside had something else for her. She had always been on her own steps for her studies, and when it's not from your heart and soul, you cannot accept that. So, she could not go further with that decision and she denied the engineering offer.   Wanting to go by her rules, she looked on to the other options and discussed her career with everyone around. And one fine day, she was introduced to biotechnology prospects by one of her uncles. Biotechnology at that time was nearly a new course introduced in the colle...